Please help me save my marriage

bwairborne · Newbie Joined: Oct 03, 2009 Posts: 4

My wife of 4 1/2 years has left me, and filed for divorce. she says its over, that she has had enough. The last 8 months were our only really bad times. I had been to Iraq twice. The last time I returned our relationship started to really get bad. I selflessly put my life out there for my men and my country. She refuses to give me anouther chance, stating I will never change, and that our marriage was all a lie. I'm asking for a miracle to get her to find that love for me again, to take me back and give me a second chance. I have caused her great pain and i ask for her forgiveness and that she will want to mend our marriage. This girl is the girl I have loved with all my heart and do not want to life my life without her. We have a 4 yr old son, and I have 3 girls from a previous marriage. I have never cheated on her. Please help me, I'm at the very rock bottom with losing my family. I cant see living my life without her or my family. Please help me, I need my family and my wife back before its too late! !

transformed · Newbie Joined: May 15, 2009 Posts: 29

bwairborne,

First let me thank you for serving our country. Regardless of political affiliation, the people of America value every servicemen's and women's sacrifice for this country.

I can't emphasize this too strongly that our mere words to each other will never solve your problem. It is only by our prayer and submission to God's will that we can hope to achieve peace in Christ.

And we must be willing and desiring souls to His will, and not our own will.

As military soldiers, we are taught to never surrender; to keep fighting with all our strength. As servants of Christ, it is entirely opposite; we are to lay down our weapons at His feet and let Him do the fighting for us.

Those weapons are our will, what we want, what we speak and how we act. If you desire to see His will done, lay down your weapons at His feet, bow your knee to His will and let Him be your Commander-In-Chief.

There are too many Christians who think that we have some mighty power to do things if we simply pray for them and too few who willing to surrender to each other.

praying for you in Christ's name,