My wife of 4 1/2 years has left me, and filed for divorce. she says its over, that she has had enough. The last 8 months were our only really bad times. I had been to Iraq twice. The last time I returned our relationship started to really get bad. I selflessly put my life out there for my men and my country. She refuses to give me anouther chance, stating I will never change, and that our marriage was all a lie. I'm asking for a miracle to get her to find that love for me again, to take me back and give me a second chance. I have caused her great pain and i ask for her forgiveness and that she will want to mend our marriage. This girl is the girl I have loved with all my heart and do not want to life my life without her. We have a 4 yr old son, and I have 3 girls from a previous marriage. I have never cheated on her. Please help me, I'm at the very rock bottom with losing my family. I cant see living my life without her or my family. Please help me, I need my family and my wife back before its too late! !

bwairborne,

First let me thank you for serving our country. Regardless of political affiliation, the people of America value every servicemen's and women's sacrifice for this country.

I can't emphasize this too strongly that our mere words to each other will never solve your problem. It is only by our prayer and submission to God's will that we can hope to achieve peace in Christ.

And we must be willing and desiring souls to His will, and not our own will.

As military soldiers, we are taught to never surrender; to keep fighting with all our strength. As servants of Christ, it is entirely opposite; we are to lay down our weapons at His feet and let Him do the fighting for us.

Those weapons are our will, what we want, what we speak and how we act. If you desire to see His will done, lay down your weapons at His feet, bow your knee to His will and let Him be your Commander-In-Chief.

There are too many Christians who think that we have some mighty power to do things if we simply pray for them and too few who willing to surrender to each other.

praying for you in Christ's name,

Lord I pray for you to surround my husband with your heavenly love. I pray that he continually hears your voice telling him you are there for him. I pray that his cold, hard heart softens and once again begins to love me and can see that I'm still that strong woman that he married 26 years ago. I pray that you speak to this other woman in his life and show her that breaking up our family was wrong. I pray for myself to find the wisdom, knowledge and patience to do your will God. I know you know what is in my heart God, I have faith in you. Finally I pray for my two children, that they are continually protected by you. That they will not let what has happened between their dad and I adversely effect them and that they will always be happy. I pray that no weapon formed against my husband and I shall prosper. I pray that miracles are manifested for all those desiring reconciliation. I plead the Blood of Jesus to cover the relationships that are seeking GODs repair. I have faith that together our prayers unite in strength and are an enhanced powerful force. I thank you GOD in advance for the answered prayer. I ask you Heavenly Father to reconcile this marriage, and let us know that you are in control of all things. Lord i ask that you dont let the enemy win by destroying this families. I pray that you get the last laugh as you always do. And I pray that you will receive all of the praise and glory you deserve for taking this matter in your hands. Glory to your name. This I pray for these people, in Jesus name. Amen!!

I first of all wish to thank you for your service and sacrifice for our country. We are nothing without your service. For that I am truly grateful. Me and my family salute you and all who serve to protect our nation and others in a time of need.

I cannot fathom the pain that you must be suffering now. I hope and pray that it is not too late. But whatever happens or has happened. Know that God is still in charge. All things work out for the good of God. I pray for you and your children and that your suffering will be short but that your faith will remain strong.

Stay strong brother...